What is Domestic Violence and Victim Blaming? When I went through my divorce, I did not understand what Domestic Violence was or Victim Blaming. I remember thinking NOBODY will ever believe me when I tell them about the abuse I had endured during my 23 year marriage. We had “looked” the part of a perfect little…
Are you facing a DIVORCE from an Abusive Partner and don’t know WHAT TO DO or WHERE TO START?
Do you suspect your abusive partner is a Narcissist and are worried about divorcing them?
Do you lie awake at night worried sick about custody issues and how to best protect your children?
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Divorce is one of the most difficult challenges for anyone to go through, but divorcing a narcissist or a person with a personality disorder takes the stress and difficulty of a divorce to a whole new level.
If any of the following statements resonate with you, then it will be crucial to add a High Conflict Divorce Coach to your team:
- I am currently in an abusive relationship. I want to leave, but am so scared. I’m not sure what I should take with me or how to prepare to leave safely.
- I am beginning the divorce process from an abusive spouse, but don’t know what to do.
- I thought when I left my abuser, all the abuse would stop. It didn’t and I don’t know why he won’t leave me alone.
- I don’t know how to find a good attorney or if I even need one.
- My spouse wants to do mediation without attorneys, but I don’t know if that’s a good idea.
- I don’t know what kind of evidence I need or how to document it.
- I am struggling with managing my expectations and/or radical acceptance.
- I’ve been using Gray Rock communication with my ex, but it is hurting my case.
- I feel like no one understands what I’m going through, even my own therapist seems baffled.
- I feel so alone.
- I don’t understand the court system and I feel lost.
- I don’t feel like my attorney and I are on the same page.
- I am unsure how to present myself before a judge.
- I have a custody evaluation coming up and I don’t know how to prepare for it.
- No one in family court seems to get I’m the victim. Even the judge seems to think I’m part of the problem and I don’t know how to change this.
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Divorcing a Narcissist or other personality disordered individual make up the High Conflict Divorce. It is extremely difficult to navigate and will have you questioning your own sanity. The abuse doesn’t end with leaving the toxic individual, like we hope it will. Sadly, the abuse moves into Post-Separation Abuse, which can be far worse than the domestic abuse suffered during the marriage. But, now we can help you deal with it better.
You can avoid the disastrous pitfalls that victims often fall prey to when trying to divorce a high conflict individual.
At Shelly J Coaching, you will find the right support, help, strategic planning, mindset management, and so much more to guide you through the troubled waters of a High Conflict Divorce and beyond.
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